Dating and ukranian
If you are truly looking for a wife, you should be asking her all kinds of questions! If you do eventually go over to ukraine, you never know what will happen.Not only ask many different questions, but ask them several times in various ways, just to see if you get consistent answers (another good way to protect yourself from a scam). I once remarked to an agency owner that I had become friendly with, "the only thing I can count on happening here is something unexpected! I have been through an earthquake, watching the Twin Towers fall from a hotel room in Kiev, Ukraine, even being re-routed on a train for several hours due to a munitions dump explosion!For most men, I would say that even if they tried it would not be possible to control a Russian or Ukrainian woman anywayshe is strong-willed and fiercely independent. Not asking her questions: You are looking for a wife, not someone to just pass the time.Well, then again Seriously, these are serious and honest women (for the most part) and they deserve the same respect.She wants love and respect, not a free ride to the west! They have to deal with drunk husbands/boyfriends who think nothing about going out and finding a mistress, don't want to support their family (so she goes out to work), and generally most of the decisions and hard choices fall to the ladies.Would you be interested in moving thousands of miles away from home, leaving all your family and friends, learning a new language, just to improve your standard of living? She will show you her claws if she thinks you are using her just as a "trophy wife." Find someone to be your lover, wife, and equal partner, not someone you can dominate and control.
Besides, she has already lived for 20 years without your "help." Why does she need you now?
And this does not even include all of the unexpected experiences I have had with the women themselves!
I do not care how many letters you have exchanged or how many phone calls you have made, once you see her in person, things will change.
Besides, if you do not ask her questions to find out more about her, her family, dreams, goals, etc she will sooner or later figure out that you are not serious.
Then she will dump you, or just see what she can get out of you!