Dating multiple people at once Xdating affair
First dates are never comfortable and especially not for us.
Go out with them anyway and see what happens." —mollys42d38d032 "For a first date (or more if needed) pick something where there is a focus — something to do or see — that still allows you to talk.
Having him bring me into the group and set up the conversation makes it easier for me to talk to the people I don't know even if he wanders off.
Also before we go out, we decide how long we are going to stay somewhere so neither one of us tries to leave earlier or stay later than our compromised time." —katrinah4bce5c12a "Compromise.
Even if that means saying no to bingeing on another series!
Dress in a comfortable way and talk to people your friends are/were talking to about something you/they find interesting.
Introversion can be misread as a lack of interest to some people, so it's always better to say 'I'm an introvert' than to let them think you aren't enjoying their company." —Emily Weeden, Facebook "Become friends with people.
If I spend time with someone I have feelings for and end up feeling completely socially exhausted, chances are that person and I aren't going to work out.No pressure." —mechteldho "One of the best pieces of advice I've ever gotten (from another introvert who was great at meeting/picking up people) was to treat the stranger like you've known them a long time but haven't seen them in a while.Do what you'd normally do then, ask how they're doing, ask how work has been, etc." —Martin Goetz, Facebook "Don't be afraid to be upfront about being an introvert with your date."I prefer to go to a place I knew or had been to before.It made me more comfortable knowing the area, what kind of food there was, etc., so I could focus on the person and talking to them rather than the atmosphere or what I would order." —Stephanie Combs, Facebook "Go to events your more extroverted friends invite you to.