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It’s that your layers of protection may be having an unintended side effect—putting off otherwise well-meaning men who don’t want to feel like they’re in seventh grade all over again.

So how do you decide if a man is interested in you or interested in sex? Maybe if she meets guys through friends, or if she meets them in places where it’s clear they have some kind of connection (like by taking an extra course at the cc or volunteering for the Humane Society) she will make the initial contact through some other type of interaction than sexual, she will have better luck.

Imagine what it’s like when you’re objectified wherever you go. A reasonable man with looks and money and life experience might very well say to himself, after five dates with nothing more than a kiss, “Screw this.

I’m going to find a woman who matches my passion, who makes me feel attractive and sexy, who is excited about me.” It’s not that you’re wrong for attempting to protect yourself, Ashley.

The truth is that pity dates are disrespectful to both of you.

By saying yes out of pity, you are leading this man on.

My friends all have boyfriends, and I’m really looking to settle down. By the way, it never gets farther than kissing with me. Men leap to attention and whisper to each other before approaching. As a result, you become a lifelong target—a trophy for men to bag.

And I’m delighted to report that I actually have a five minute VIDEO that takes on the same topic. Despite your very accurate concerns that men want to sleep with the pretty girl, pretty girls get married ALL THE TIME. They let down their guard, they take a chance, and they TRUST. Evan has all kinds in the sidebar, though I think he could stand to add some of the veggie singles sites 🙂 Also, are these hot guys (who might, as others have pointed out, be shallow and not call if she doesn’t put out right away) or regular joes (who might feel patronized or suspicious if she hasn’t established some non-sexual connection with them prior to the date that would explain her interest)?

Without knowing more, it’s hard to tell, though I think Evan is right on.

There’s nothing wrong with him, but you didn’t feel any spark.

I am 25 years old and have never been in a serious relationship.

I am a very attractive girl and I tend to meet guys easily and go on dates mostly every weekend. You’re catered to so frequently that you may lack some kindness, empathy or social grace.

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